Don’t please others to fit in. You live to please God, not man. Being real to yourself brings happiness. It doesn’t matter what people say about you. After all, you are what God says who you are. Believe the report of the Lord about your life.
Jeremiah 28:11-13
11 For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.
12 Then shall ye call upon me, and ye shall go and pray unto me, and I will hearken unto you.
13 And ye shall seek me, and find me, when ye shall search for me with all your heart.