Some people take others for granted. Some abuse other people’s kindness. Ask God daily for the spirit of discernment. Some of your friends that you might be  associating with might not be who you think they are. Some could be snakes under grass. Ask God to give you a revelation on who to associate with. This is important to know in your life. Not having the spirit of discernment in your life is like walking with no direction. Be careful who you tell your problems too. Not everyone is and/or will be happy about your success.